ES3217: Loss of Childhood

  Week 6: Parent-Offspring Conflict

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Last updated 31.10.11.

  

 

Introduction

From an evolutionary perspective, offspring are the vehicle for parents’ genes, so selection mechanisms should favour parental care strategies designed to ensure the survival and reproduction of offspring. Hrdy has introduced us to the idea of ‘proximity-promoting’ behaviours in babies that ensure they are cared for, and attachment theorists such as Bowlby and Ainsworth argue that the quality of care a child receives in its earliest years is crucial for their subsequent ability to develop and sustain social relationships in later life. Combined, these theoretical perspectives have been used to support a worldview that emphasises the centrality of the primary carer (usually the mother) in a child’s formative years, and by implication, assumes that the mother-child relationship will (should) be harmonious.

 

Certainly, our contemporary view of family dynamics in the west assumes that conflict within the family is indicative of a ‘dysfunctional’ family unit. However, this week’s session deals with Trivers’ assertion that this interpretation is mistaken, and the reverse is true: that conflict between mammalian parents and offspring is inevitable. Trivers argues that the conflicting genetic and evolutionary imperatives for:

 

·        adults to bear several offspring in order to maximise the potential for reproducing their genes

·        each offspring to secure its survival enlisting the care of its parent

 

mean that each individual offspring is always going to demand more parental investment than the parent is willing or able to give. 

 

Moreover, Trivers (who is an evolutionary psychologist) states that this conflict begins very early in the child’s life, citing weaning as the initial classic conflict between parent and child: the parent desires another baby  and needs to wean the existing baby from the breast in order to conceive, but the existing child does not want breastfeeding to cease and uses the psychological tactics available to him/her to prevent this happening.

 

Trivers introduces two concepts into debates about childcare:

 

1.      parental investment; and

2.      parent-offspring conflict

 

Parental Investment and Sexual Selection (1972)

Parental investment is anything that a parent does to promote the survival of an offspring, which also detracts from the parent’s ability to invest in the other offspring. Trivers defines parental investment as:

 

‘any investment by the parent in an individual offspring that increases the offspring’s chances of surviving […] at the cost of the parent’s ability to invest in other offspring.’ (Trivers, 1974 cited in Barrett, Dunbar and Lycett, 2002; p. 34)

 

He is assuming that the majority of parental investment will be undertaken by mothers, and employs evolutionary psychology to offer 3 hypotheses why this might be the case.

 

1.      Paternity Uncertainty reduces the male’s direct investment in children

2.      Abandonability of the female reduces the male’s indirect investment in children

3.      Limited Mating Opportunities for males who invest exclusively in one family

 

The outcome of this male ambivalence is that females have to be more

selective about who they mate with than do males: if they choose poorly they are likely to be left alone literally holding the baby.

 

 

Parent-Offspring Conflict (Trivers, 1974)

Trivers challenges the conventional psychoanalytic wisdom regarding parent-child conflict that was offered by Freud in his notion of the Oedipus Complex (1900/1953). Freud hypothesised that between ages 2 and 5 boys develop a sexual attraction toward their mothers, which puts them in conflict with their father who has actual sexual access to the mother, leading to the son’s unconscious desire to kill his father. This hypothesis assumes same-sex conflict within a family.

 

Triver’s theory of parent-offspring conflict does not place great significance upon the child’s gender, and suggests instead that conflicts are driven by  disagreements over the allocation of the parents’ investments. Trivers argues that Freud’ Oedipal complex hypothesis is mistaken on two counts:

 

·        There may  be conflict between fathers and sons, but this would be over parental investment, not sexual access

·        Any sexual conflict between fathers and sons is likely to be concerned with sexual access to other women, not the mother

 

Trivers (1974) offers an alternative explanation for parent-child conflict, which has no gender bias but challenges the assumption that:

 

‘Parents are classically assumed to allocate investment in their young in such a way as to maximise the number surviving, while offspring are implicitly assumed to be passive vessels into which parents put the appropriate care.’ (Trivers, 1974 cited in Hrdy, 1999: pp. 426-7)

 

Trivers suggests that if the offspring are perceived as actors in this interaction then they can be assumed to experience conflict between themselves and their parents, and between themselves and their siblings, as each offspring demands more parental investment than their parents are willing to give.

 

The issue here is about the subconscious decisions parents make about the allocation of resources between their children, or, between their existing child and other children they are planning to have. Trivers is not arguing that these decisions are made frivolously (this is not an argument about favouritism) but are driven by survival imperatives.

 

Because any child shares only half of its genes with each of its parents, siblings, parents and offspring – so while these individuals are usually perceived as being ‘related’ in significant ways they can also be perceived as differing genetically to a significant degree.  The difference between siblings is crucial to Trivers’ argument, because the conflict between parents and offspring that he describes is generated by competition between siblings.

 

Genetically, parents have an equal investment in each of their children - even though the children may differ greatly in their characteristics (and therefore their similarity to each parent), and more importantly, in their potential to survive. Parents’ perspective on the ideal allocation of resources within the family would be to share them out equally among their offspring. However, each offspring wants the whole allocation for his or herself, and doesn’t share their parents’ investment in their siblings’ survival because they are not sufficiently genetically similar to them. Investment by a parent in one offspring detracts from what is available to her other offspring, and therefore parents and offspring are likely to disagree over the allocation: each child desires a larger portion of the parents’ resources than the parents want or are able to give.

 

Trivers proposes that parents are likely to continue to invest in an offspring up to the point where the costs of this investment outweigh the benefits to the offspring. At this point, it makes evolutionary sense for the parent to reduce their investment in the current offspring and start investing in the next. This leads to three specific hypotheses identified by Buss (1999) who has developed Trivers’ work for a contemporary audience:

 

1.      Parents and children will get into conflict about the time at which the child should be weaned, with parents wanting this to happen earlier than the child wishes it

2.      Parents will encourage children to value their siblings more than children are naturally inclined to value them

3.      Parents will tend to punish conflict between siblings and reward co-operation

 

Consequently, as Hrdy notes, children have to resort to emotional and psychological manipulations in order register their disappointment at the type of parental investment they are receiving and present their case for greater parental investment.

 

‘Tantrums are the most dramatic, outward, and visible manifestation of these tactics. Though they appear to be spontaneous outbursts, Trivers believed tantrums could be quite calculated. Infants engage in manipulative exaggeration of emotional and physiological states.’ (Hrdy, 1999; p. 429

 

 

When does the conflict begin?

Trivers’ argument is significant because it undermined the contemporary popular view that relationships between parents and young children are essentially warm and joyful, and that parent-offspring conflict occurs in humans occurs when the child is older, and reaches its peak when the child is an adolescent. However, David Haig, an Australian evolutionary psychologist suggests that Trivers’ argument doesn’t reach far enough by failing to recognise the extent of conflict that occurs between mother and offspring even before birth.

 

Although it is in both the mother’s and the child’s interests for the pregnancy to progress successfully, their individual interests regarding the pregnancy don’t neatly coincide. Haig goes so far as to suggest that far from being the harmonious event that the manuals describe, pregnancy is a struggle for control between the mother and the baby. Palmer and Palmer (2002) summarise the problem for the mother as follows:

 

‘From the perspective of the mother’s genes, investment in the current fetus must be weighed against investment in existing children or in future children. If conditions are such that investment in the current fetus will severely compromise the probability of survival of existing children or offspring, then it is in the mother’s interest not to invest in the fetus.’ (Palmer and Palmer 2002: p. 145)

 

However, the foetus does not have to make the same kind of calculations: it simply has to exert whatever physiological influences it can upon the mother to ensure its survival. This is achieved through the work of the placenta, which implants within the uterine lining in order to control the supply of nutrients to the foetus, and  is viewed by obstetricians as:

 

‘a ruthless parasitic organ existing solely for the maintenance and protection of the fetus, perhaps too often to the disregard of the maternal organism.’ (Page 1939, cited in Hrdy 1999; p. 433)

 

Four main problems (or ‘inefficiencies to use Haig’s term) associated with pregnancy can be seen to support Haig’s argument:

 

1.      Miscarriage

2.      Morning Sickness

3.      Gestational Diabetes

4.      Pre-eclampsia

 

Miscarriage

As many as 75% of all fertilised eggs may fail to implant or are spontaneously aborted in early pregnancy (Nesse and Williams, 1994), often before the woman is even aware she is pregnant, and usually because of some form of chromosonal abnormality in the foetus.

 

After an egg has been released by the ovary, the corpus luteum (which is formed from the follicle of the released egg) produces declining levels of progesterone for the next two weeks. If there is no embryo (fertilised egg) in the uterus, this declining progesterone production results in menstruation. If an embryo is embedded in the uterus it will produce human chorionic gonadotrophin (hCG), which serves to keep progesterone levels high, and thereby prevent menstruation. Haig (1998) suggests that we perceive the embryo as an independent entity asserting its right to survive, and thus resisting the normal processes of the woman’s reproductive cycle in order to achieve this goal.  He proposes that the ability to produce high levels of hCG is an indicator of the ‘health’ or ‘quality’ of the embryo, and that embryos which are not strong enough to counter the woman’s production of progesterone are not worth the mother’s investment  because they suggest that the genetic material they carry is poor. Consequently they are shed at the usual time of menstruation: the woman wins this particular battle and thus retains the possibility for more successful reproduction of her genetic material at a later date.

 

Morning Sickness

A large proportion of women (at least 75% according to Tierson, Olsen and Hook, 1986) develop a heightened sensitivity to smell and a nauseous reaction to certain foods in the first trimester of pregnancy. Our usual terminology for this phenomenon is ‘morning sickness’, implying that something is amiss physiologically with the mother. However, a large body of research evidence is accumulating to suggest that the sickness is an adaptive behaviour designed to protect the developing foetus from harmful toxins that be found in many of our ‘everyday’ foods and can be responsible for birth defects and miscarriages: apples, bananas, potatoes, celery, black pepper to name just a few. Specific foods that pregnant women develop aversions to are: coffee; vegetables; meat; eggs and alcohol. All of these foods contain high levels of toxins, and the stage of pregnancy when women are most highly sensitised to them is when the toxins would have the most harmful effect upon on the foetus’s organ development. The most significant piece of evidence to support this hypothesis of the valuable role morning sickness plays in pregnancy is that women who do not experience nausea in the first trimester are three times more likely to miscarry than women who do have morning sickness, and also produced babies with higher birth weights (Profet, 1992).

 

However, it is not clear whether this process is embryo- or mother-driven. That is, whether the mother’s body becomes sick to protect the embryo, or the embryo exerts physiological pressure on the mother to protect itself. Once again, Haig suggests we need to reconsider our assumption that morning sickness is evidence of the woman’s body’s protective behaviour towards the foetus, and instead perceive the foetus as an independent entity exerting its right to survival upon the woman’s body, with little regard for the distress this might entail for the woman.

 

Gestational Diabetes

Pregnant and non-pregnant women’s blood sugar levels differ significantly. When she is not pregnant, a healthy woman’s blood sugar levels will rise and fall relatively quickly after eating carbohydrates.  Maternal blood sugar levels typically drop during early pregnancy and then stabilise at this low level for most of the pregnancy. However, in the advanced stages of pregnancy, a woman’s blood sugar level rises to higher levels after eating carbohydrates, and stay elevated for longer. This is because the placenta releases human placental lactogen (hPL) which increases the woman’s resistance to the insulin produced by her pancreas to stabilise her blood sugar levels. The purpose of stimulating this increased insulin resistance in the mother is to ensure that the foetus can receive the sugar it requires to achieve a healthy birth weight.

 

Usually, an appropriate balance is achieved for both mother and foetus, but in a significant minority of cases the insulin resistance stimulated by the hPL can produce temporary diabetes in the woman, so that she has to carefully control the amount of sugar she ingests in order to keep healthy and avoid the possibility of developing insulin-resistant diabetes permanently. This is a chronic incurable disease that leads to cardiovascular disease, kidney disease and neuropathy. The foetus is not harmed by gestational diabetes, although its increased weight can make birth difficult. What Haig appears to be suggesting here is that the placenta works for the benefit of the foetus, even though this may cause temporary (and even long-term) serious health problems for the mother. This suggestion supports the argument for foetus-mother conflict before birth, but has a fatal flaw: if the rise in insulin resistance promoted by the foetus is very high, the baby will be very large and therefore at risk of harm during delivery. Moreover, if the rise in insulin resistance promoted by the foetus so great that it makes the woman seriously ill permanently, it is also likely that the woman’s capacity for securing her baby’s survival will also be compromised.

 

Pre-eclampsia

In the early stages of pregnancy, a the woman experiences a drop in blood pressure as the placental cells destroy her arteriolar muscles that are responsible for adjusting the flow of blood to the foetus, and remodels the endometrial spiral arteries so that the placenta gains control over its source of nutrition. It achieves this by releasing a protein called neurokinin B (NKB) that causes veins to restrict and the heart rate to increase, both of which raise blood pressure, which has the effect of delivering more nutrition to the foetus. This process usually results in a subsequent slight raise in blood pressure for the mother, which she manages with ease. However, a more dramatic rise in blood pressure is set in motion when the foetus is insufficiently nourished, either because the mother is malnourished, is older, or because the placenta is poorly implanted in the uterus.

 

Some increase in blood pressure in pregnancy is harmless for the mother (and is also linked with a lower rate of miscarriage Haig, 1993), and in these cases the foetus appears to have the upper hand in the ‘conflict’ between woman and foetus. However, very high blood pressure can lead to a condition in the mother called pre-eclampsia, which if left untreated, can lead to eclampsia, an acute physiological crisis that not only generates a range of life-threatening conditions such as kidney failure, liver failure, heart attack and stroke in the mother, but is also highly likely to lead to the death of the foetus.

 

Currently, the only way to alleviate the symptoms of pre-eclampsia is by delivering the baby as soon as possible. About a third of all premature births are caused by pre-eclampsia: some of these will have happened naturally, others will have been induced early as the obstetrician has calculated that the risk to mother and foetus is too great to allow the pregnancy to continue, and others will have been delivered by caesarean section because the mother and/or foetus is too vulnerable to endure a natural delivery. In these cases, the foetus’ demands on the mother’s physiology appear to have backfired, as it has less than the desired time in the womb and has also been poorly nourished during that time. It is also highly likely that the damage cause to the woman by the stresses placed upon her body in eclampsia and severe pre-eclampsia will compromise her ability to invest in her child’s survival.

 

Delivery

The average human pregnancy lasts 40 weeks, and it is easy to assume that the foetus has this time period ‘pre-programmed’ in some way. However, Hrdy proposes that the date of birth is much more provisional, stating:

 

‘The exact moment of birth can be viewed as a negotiated settlement between embryonic demands and maternal assessments of the environment that the will both inhabit.’ (Hrdy, 1999; p. 434)

 

A hormone called Cortiotropin Releasing Hormone (CRH) appears to be responsible for determining the duration of pregnancy. In a normal pregnancy, the placenta releases CRH, which stimulates the pituitary of the foetus to secrete adrenocortiotropic hormone (ACTH), which acts on the adrenal glands of the foetus so that they release oestrogen. This raised level of oestrogen causes the muscles of the uterus to synthesise connections and stimulates the mother to secrete oxytocin, which stimulates contractions in the uterus and the production of milk.

 

In problematic pregnancies such as those described above, the placenta is likely to stimulate this process prematurely. Haig (1993) argues that this ‘cutting of losses’ occurs when the supply of nutrients to the foetus becomes so unsatisfactory that the survival of the foetus becomes unlikely. The cost to the foetus of remaining in an unsupportive environment becomes too great, and premature entry into the world seems preferable, not least because the threats to the mother’s health also threaten the foetus’ future survival. In evolutionary terms, the premature arrival of an under-nourished child to a mother who is strong enough to care for it is preferable to a slightly stronger, but motherless child.

 

 

References

Barrett, L., Dunbar, R. and Lycett, J. (2002) Human Evolutionary Psychology Basingstoke: Palgrave

Buss, D. (1999) ‘The theory of parent-offspring conflict’ Evolutionary Psychology: the New Science of the Mind Allyn and Bacon: Boston 2nd Edition

Haig, (1993) ‘Genetic Conflicts in Human Pregnancy’ The Quarterly Review of Biology 68 pp. 495-532

Hrdy (2001) ‘The past, present and future of the human family’ The Tanner Lectures on Human Values delivered at the University of Utah 27 and 28  February 2001

Trivers, R. (1974) ‘Parent-offspring Conflict’ American Zoologist 14 pp. 249-264.

 

Bibliography: Trivers, R. (1985) Social Evolution CAL: Cummins Publishing; your hand-out of chapter summaries comes from this.