ES3217: Loss of Childhood

  Week 5: Bowlby and Attachment Theory

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Last updated 19.11.11.

 

 

Introduction

Our main focus today is Attachment Theory, which was devised by John Bowlby, but we need also to appreciate the context of his work and its implications if we are to do this area of enquiry justice.

 

Western society assumes that carer-child relationships play a central role in a child’s psychological development and Goldberg summarises our acknowledgement of its significance in the following way:

 

‘Clearly the human infant is not equipped to survive without adult caregivers who provide food, warmth, and protection from illness and injury. Yet our intuitive concepts go beyond the confines of physical care and include the notion that individual differences in later functioning – indeed, the core of personality – are shaped by the experiences we have with a small number of early caregivers.’ (Goldberg, 2000: p. 1)

 

Our question for this session is why does this assumption continue to have such resonance when we increasingly acknowledge the complex interrelationship between nature and nurture in children’s development? Moreover, what implications does this world-view have for our understandings of ‘good’ or ‘effective’ early childhood care?

 

Several researchers have examined the issues surrounding a child’s early and formative attachments over the last fifty years. The origin of this field was Bowlby’s (1951) ‘Maternal Deprivation’ study  of 44 convicted juvenile boys in the London Child Guidance Unit who suffered from ‘affectionless psychopathy’ (the inability to feel affection for, or care about, the well-being of others). Over half of these children had been separated from their mothers for a period of at least a week during the first 5 years of life and Bowlby concluded that maternal deprivation was the cause of their delinquency/emotional problems.

 

‘Attachment theory’ has remained a staple ingredient of undergraduate psychology courses for many years, although attachment theorists have seen fluctuations in the form of their public reception. When he was in favour, Bowlby’s research findings were implicated in the Plowden Committee’s decision to emphasise that nursery education should take place on a part-time basis only. Subsequently, supporters of attachment theory was the target of much feminist-inspired social critique. Their continuing influence on policy decisions (and indirectly, on Western cultural assumptions) made the relationship between mothers and their young children a hot issue in the face of claims for greater gender equity in the work-place. Scientifically speaking, the central theme of these criticisms was that assumptions about ‘ideal’ motherhood were based upon unreliable sources of data which overemphasised the role of the mother and unjustifiably circumscribed women’s (and children’s) lives.

 

‘By situating the mother (or other primary caretaker) at the center of each developing infant’s universe, Bowlby’s theory of attachment stings most smartly where it pricks the conscience of every mother who is aware of her infant’s needs but who also aspires to a life beyond bondage to them.’ (Hrdy, 1999: p. 407)

 

However, there has recently been a shift back to promoting the significance of parenting (in contrast to mothering) and the importance of parents/carers ‘getting it right’ in the early years. This can be identified in Government initiatives such as Sure Start and the increasing rhetoric of parent-professional partnership in education, health and social care (see Every Child Matters). It is most obvious culturally in the steady rise of parenting and childcare advice given on television and in magazines.

 

In the academic sphere, Hrdy has tried to ‘rehabilitate’ Bowlby, by inviting us to reconsider his work in the light of her accumulated evidence of the significance of the mother’s care for the survival of the infant primate. However, Hrdy’s comments on Bowlby should be read with a ‘health warning’: while she concurs with his assertion of the biological requirement of intensive care for the young infant, she does not agree with his assumptions that a human mother’s care is ‘inevitable’ or ‘selfless’ in all but the most extreme of circumstances, nor does she (or the theorists we consider in the other set of notes) believe that the normal relationship between mother and child is (or should be) harmonious.

 

Instead, Hrdy suggests that despite evidence of the importance of attachment for a child’s subsequent relationships, mothers may, for a variety of reasons, be ambivalent about their role of caregiver. Consequently, infants need to engage in behaviours that elicit a mother’s care and become ‘connoisseurs of mothering’.

 

‘If human mothers were automatically nurturing, their infants would not need to be so attuned and keenly discriminating.’ ’(Blaffer Hrdy, 1999:p. 387)

 

In Hrdy’s eyes, attachment is not an experience that is ‘given’ to a passive child by an altruistic adult, but instead is a ‘contract’ that is negotiated between adult and child.

 

 

Contextualising Bowlby

The theoretical context of Bowlby’s work explains, in part, his confidence in asserting the significant role of the mother. Ethology (the study of animal behaviour and how it relates to human behaviour) played a significant role in Bowlby’s work: he was greatly influenced by Lorenz’s (1935) notion of ‘imprinting’  in animals during a ‘critical’ or sensitive period immediately after birth, which initiates an enduring preference for a specific figure. This was strikingly demonstrated by Lorenz’s success in getting young goslings to follow him around as if he was their mother. A later, related study indicated the significance of this initial relationship for the mother when Hersher et al (1958) discovered that if baby sheep or goats are removed from their mothers shortly after birth, the mothers will not accept them back into their care. Both studies indicate that, for these species, early contact between the mother and infant has an important biological function which enhances either caregiving or development, and possibly both.

 

Another significant influence on Bowlby was Harlow’s experiments with rhesus monkeys over a period of 20 years, some of which coincided with Bowlby’s early career. Harlow (1958) reports how infant monkeys were removed from their mothers shortly after birth and placed alone in a cage with a surrogate mother, which was either:

 

·        A ‘cloth’ mother consisting of a wooden cylinder covered with towelling

·        A ‘wire’ mother, which was simply a wire cylinder

 

Each surrogate mother was of the same proportions, all were equipped with a feeding mechanism, and each monkey had the opportunity to gain access to both types of surrogate mother despite being initially assigned to a specific one. Irrespective of which ‘mother’ they were assigned to, each infant spent most of its time clinging to the cloth mother. This led the researchers to conclude that primates need a source of ‘contact comfort’ in addition to a source of food. Their ‘follow-up’ studies indicated that when they were introduced to other monkeys that had been reared normally, the experimental monkeys were either aggressive or indifferent: most males were unable to mate successfully and those females who conceived were inadequate mothers. Consequently, Harlow concluded that infant mothers required the presence of a live mother to develop normal behaviour.

 

In a subsequent study Harlow and Harlow (1969) developed their experimental design further and raised infant monkeys in complete isolation from both humans and other monkeys. These monkeys routinely clutched their own bodies and rocked compulsively, and when they were finally exposed to other monkeys they were either apathetic or aggressive towards the others and themselves. Harlow presented this finding as yet more evidence that mothering is crucial for normal development in all primates. However, he also reported that the effects of deprivation were not irreversible: the gradual introduction of other monkeys greatly reduced the abnormal behaviour of the deprived monkeys.

 

 

(See also the work of Winthrop Kellogg)

The Ape and The Child, A Research Project Conducted at Orange Park Florida (1931 - 1932)

 

 

This ethological evidence, combined with human research spurred Bowlby on to emphasise his belief in the significance of a mother’s care for a human infant’s development. 

 

Attachment Theory

Bowlby notes that during their first year an infant’s ‘proximity promoting’ behaviours become focused on a specific caregiver, which will be someone who has been consistently responsive to the infant’s behaviour. Bowlby (1969) used the term ‘monotropy’ to describe this qualitatively different relationship with a specific individual, which he assumed/asserted would be the mother. His three volume work titled Attachment and Loss (1969, 1973, 1980) is an attempt to work through the implications of combining psychoanalytic thinking, ethology and his personal research, which led him to the conclusion that the attachment bond which develops between an infant and its mother forms the basis of all interpersonal relationships in later years. Subsequent researchers have extended  the definition of ‘significant’ formative relationships to include fathers and carers in the attachment ‘dyad’ but the emphasis upon the enduring significance of this early attachment remains.

 

Bowlby (1969) argues that as the child experiences an emotional tie to the caregiver s/he forms an ‘internal working model’ of the relationship that enables him/her to generate behaviours which will maintain that relationship as well as aiding them in the development of other relationships. The internal working model extends as the child matures and their experiences broaden: however, the original model serves to determine how new experiences and understandings are incorporated. Therefore Bowlby argues that despite being amenable to some modification, the fundamental consistency of a working model means that ‘getting it right’ with the first, significant relationship is of great importance.

 

Numerous subsequent psychological studies have asserted that the first strong attachments in humans appear at 6-8 months and are accompanied by the development of separation anxiety (e.g. Scaffer and Emerson, 1964). Bowlby argues that when there is adequate proximity to the primary caregiver, the mechanisms of attachment between the adult and child are not very explicit because the child feels secure: s/he does not need to focus on the relationship and is free to give their attention to other things. However, when the attachment is insecure or threatened, the infant’s behaviour is concentrated on asserting or reasserting the relationship.

Bowlby proposed that there are three signals of threatened or insecure attachment: protest, despair and detachment.

 

 

The Strange Situation

Mary Ainsworth developed specific experimental conditions to observe these ‘attachment behaviours’ in more detail. She called this the Strange Situation (Ainsworth et al, 1978) and used it to assess how the child-mother relationship is affected by a slightly stressful situation. Her original study observed 26 babies in a laboratory context. The child’s time in the laboratory was divided into 8 short episodes, each with slightly different experiences. Initially, the child is with their mother for whole episode. Then mother leaves for a short time while the child is alone. Then another person enters the room while the child is alone … and so on. Ainsworth and her team observed this process through a one-way mirror, and noted responses in the child that indicated their attachment to the mother, and the degree of security and comfort they felt in her presence.

 

Ainsworth identified 3 main attachment types on the basis of the common, distinctive behaviour they exhibited in the Strange Situation. She proposed that these strange situation behaviours were also correlated to behaviours in the home and were related to the children’s subsequent social development

 

 

Avoidant infants

These children appeared unconcerned with the mother’s presence or absence. They explored the room with little reference to their mother and showed little distress at their departure. Moreover, they visibly ignored or snubbed their mothers when they returned. The mothers of these children were described as ‘rejecting’: they were slow to respond to their signals and appeared uncomfortable with close contact, although they were eager to interfere unnecessarily with their child’s activities. The implication here is that the child has come to realise that his/her mother’s care is either inadequate inconsistent, and they no longer invest in having a strong attachment with her. This leads to the speculation that these children will experience difficulties in developing healthy relationships with other people.

 

 

Secure infants

These children gave evidence of confidence in their mother’s ability to provide comfort: they explored the room freely and sought contact with their mother when necessary. Their mothers were sensitive in response to their children’s signals, and were emotionally expressive and flexible in dealing with them. Although the children’s explorations decreased when their mother left the room they were not inconsolable, and they were happy to see their mother return. The implication is that these children’s attachment is appropriate, and they will be able to develop healthy relationships with other people.

 

 

Resistant infants

These children appeared preoccupied with getting maternal attention and contact, but also hesitant to trust her. They were reluctant to explore even in their mother’s presence and were extremely distressed by her departures. The mothers of these children were inconsistently responsive and often inept in physical contact, showing little spontaneous affection. The argument is that, like the avoidant children, these children have experienced inadequate and inconsistent care from their mothers: however, this experience has not resulted in the children’s ambivalence towards their carers. Instead, they merely exaggerated their attempts to obtain their mother’s attention.

 

In the original study, 65% of the children were classified as secure, 21% as avoidant and 10-14% as resistant. In later studies, members of Ainsworth’s original team developed an additional classification of ‘disorganised infants’ that described the behaviours of infants whose social and emotional development had been damaged in some way.

 

Disorganised infants (Main and Solomon, 1986/1990)

These children demonstrated a breakdown in organised attachment behaviour and acted erratically and unpredictably in their mother’s absence.

These unusual behaviours only made sense if they were interpreted as signs that the infant had confused expectations or was fearful of the caregiver

 

Hrdy comments on the body of work generated by Ainsworth’s research team in the following way:

 

‘Ainsworth’s “strange situation” procedure made it possible to classify and measure security of attachment.[…] Generally speaking, securely attached infants tend to be more socially secure at the time they enter preschool, and to respond better to instructions from teachers, than children who have been classified as insecure and disorganised in their attachment to a key caretaker.’ (Hrdy, 1999: p. 404)

 

Now we can see that if these arguments are to have such influence upon our professional opinions of children’s security and attachment levels, it becomes increasingly important that we are confident about whether the researchers are ‘getting it right’!

 

 

Complicating the Evidence Base

Rutter (1972) made comparisons between a large group of boys living on the Isle of Wight and a similar group in London, all of whom had been separated from their parents at some point in early childhood. Significantly, while some of these boys were delinquent in the way that Bowlby would have anticipated, there were also others in the group who were not delinquent. Rutter’s conclusion from this finding was that the significant factor in these boys’ development was not the event of separation itself, but what happened after the separation. Significantly, he found that if the separation was through the parent’s illness or death, the child was able to recover from this traumatic episode and go on to have a normal development. However, when the separation was due to family discord, the child often became delinquent. These findings suggest that, for those children who ‘survived’ the separation, other caregivers/adults had a sufficiently positive influence on their lives to support the children through this traumatic episode, thereby undermining Bowlby’s implied argument that the parent (mother) was the only source of security and comfort for the child.

 

Tizard and Hodges undertook a longitudinal study of children in institutional care as infants, who were adopted after the age of 4 compared with children who were reared at home by their parents (Tizard and Hodges, 1978; Hodges and Tizard, 1989). Their follow up observations of the children are ages 8 and 16 indicated that although most of the adopted children had formed strong attachments with their adoptive parents they had also experienced some difficulties outside the family group. Tizard et al concluded that there was little to support Bowlby’s claim that there was an early critical period for the formation of attachments. However, they did acknowledge that the first 2 years of life did appear to be critical in shaping some aspects of later development because the early institutional experiences of the children appeared to have caused some obstacles to social and emotional adjustment.

 

Where does all the information get us? Hrdy introduces us to Fraiberg’s notion of ‘ghosts in the nursery’ as a means of highlighting what many psychoanalysts believe to be the significance of early childhood experiences.

 

‘In every nursery there are ghosts. The intruders from [a family’s] past have taken up residence in their nursery claiming rights of ownership. They have been present at the christening for two or more generations. While none has issued an invitation, the ghosts have taken up residence and conduct the rehearsal of the family tragedy from a tattered script.’ (Fraiberg, 1975 cited in Hrdy, 1999: p. 405)

 

If we agree with this perspective, then maybe the growth in ‘parenting’ advice is not only useful, but essential for the future well-being of our children. However, if you are unpersuaded by this viewpoint you may want to consider some of the critiques of attachment theory that can be found by simple internet searches. A helpful starting point may be Cleary’s (1999) response to Bowlby, where she refers to psychology as a twentieth century mythology, or Shaver and Fraley’s (2000) article, which highlights the role of emotion in caregiving. The first article warns against an overly sentimental reading of attachment theory, while the second wishes to reassert the role of emotion. Plenty of others will also provide easily readable ‘ways in’ to the type of critique you wish to make. The controversial question I want to leave you with today, is … if attachment is a negotiated relationship between carer and child, and there is evidence of an insecure attachment – is there any circumstance where it might be appropriate to identify the child as the source of this ‘problem’?

 

 

References

Cleary, R. (1999) Bowlby’s Theory of Attachment and Loss: a feminist reconsideration Feminism and Psychology 9 (32) pp. 1-12

 

Shaver, P. and Fraley, R. (2000) Attachment Theory and Caregiving Psychological Inquiry 11 (2) pp. 109-114